Hardest yet

While we were in New York on The Big Lundberg Family Adventure, Wilson wrote a vile and threatening text to a girl in our Stake. The text was in response to hurt feelings that have gone unresolved for a couple of years. The frightened girl reported the text to her parents and they called the police to request a restraining order.

Wilson had no idea that the his text would have such devastating consequences. He has had to appear in court twice, pay for an attorney, has the lost the use of the car, his phone and all media. He has been depressed for days and has wasted beautiful summer days trying to sleep away the pain. His choice has caused great grief for his parents and grandparents. His siblings have been frightened. He faces jail, fines, hours of community service, as well as a permanent record. His crime may impact his mission, military service, jobs and even his right to vote and bear arms.

We are so disappointed in Wilson. He knew better. He has been taught to keep the commandments which include loving others. He has never heard those vile words in our home. Nothing justifies his behavior and we are hurt.

We are also filled with the hope and gratitude that comes from a knowledge of the Atonement of Jesus Christ. We know that a Savior has been provided for this exact time. We know that if Wilson turns to the Savior with honesty and humility, owns his mistake and makes efforts toward restitution, the pain will be washed away. I have also been impressed with the knowledge that through the enabling power of the Atonement I can feel peace and pain simultaneously.

All my prayers right now are that Wilson will learn from this experience in a way that would stop him from making the same mistake again. I hope that he can feel the relief of forgiveness. I hope he sees the protection of keeping the commandments. This is what I have learned from him.


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