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Sunday, December 31, 2023

December Fun

 


Mom and Sam make Christmas cookies-at his request!


Gingerbread house with the last kid at home.


discovering an authentic Peruivian restaurant in Hurricane


Hiking in Zion


December Angel's Landing hike-stunning


Goodbye to Carlos


St George Temple Dedication


Goodbye dinner with Carlos, our temporary renter

Christmas 2023

Christmas Eve Sunday


Tony's amazing brisket-best ever!



Grandma and Wendy listening to Uncle Bob's beautiful poetry


Dad (way too) into laser tag.

 


A visit to see the lights in the botanical garden


Harlow's new hat from Great Grandpa Jim. Harlow immediately said, "I'm a real cowboy!"


Grandpa's temporary birthday bidet-actual bidet arrives soon.


Santa brings laser guns!





We started a new tradition adopted from Iceland.  We all receive a new book on Christmas Eve!

Eliza with her stash

 


Max opening gifts


Christmas pajamas for the big boys


Christmas Eve dinner


Eliza visits temple square with the Kolbs





Grandma and Harlow


Christmas Eve Sunday




Sunday, December 17, 2023

Understanding the Abrahamic Covenant

 At the end of November, life became overwhelming for Wilson.  He got on a greyhound bus and rode until they told him to get off.  For the next couple of weeks he wandered; staying in homeless shelters and on the street.  He spent most o his time hungry, cold and lonely.  Wilson was angry that he couldn't come live in our home where he could be warm, fed and safe, but that kind of help doesn't help Wilson become an independant successful man.   When he finally reached out to us, we extended an offer.  We would help him with his rent so he could have a place to live.  He could always come and get food from our pantry.  He was always loved and part of our family.  Wilson would need to go back to work,  communicate with the people who love him and can help, and try again.  

While studying the Abrahamic Covenant I was wrestling with the promises God makes of property posterity and priesthood power.  These promises just didn't seem either motivating or relevant.  Then I shifted my paradigm.  I focused less on the promises as a reward, and more as God's desire to fulfill my deepest human needs.  Instead of focusing on specific property, I saw God offering me a protected place,  a location of belonging, a home.  Instead of focusing on family-defined posterity, I saw God offering me a people, a community of belonging.  Instead of focusing on the overwhelming responsibility of priesthood power, I saw God offering me purpose.  

When I feel overwhelmed with life like Wilson was, I hope the blessings of the Abrahamic Covenant bring me home.  As a covenant keeper, I agree to go to work every day,  keep communicating with God,  and try again (repent).   What he offers me is a protected place, a people and purpose.  

Sunday, December 3, 2023

Birthdays!

 







Harlow turned 2! She came for a sleepover at Grandma and Grandpas.  We had bath, stories, snacks and prayers then snuggled into bed by 9:00 for a long birthday sleep.  Instead, she woke up at 2:30 and wanted to eat applesauce and play tickle monster.  Tony and I are definitely too old for this kind of birthday celebration!

Two days later Sam turned 17.  He celebrated with friends, Eggo waffles and wings,  and watching his favorite Ducks football team lose to the Huskies.   

My dearest baby boy,

This year, especially the last few months, you have done something that has made me so proud.  You asked for help.  You came to us indicating that you weren't doing well and wanted to see a Dr.  We did, and came up with a solution.  I know school is hard, and you don't have a job right now.  I know social pressures are real and being the youngest isn't very easy.  But reaching out to safe people and asking for help is true adulting.  
You have a sweet relationship with Harlow right now.  She likes to give you knucks and calls for Uncle Sam when she sees you.  Your siblings continue to adore you.  Lately you and Dad have been working hard to get along.  You still feel embarrassed if Dad says something awkward, but you have the social skills not to embarrasses him.  You have been compassionate with me when I shame-parent.  Thank you for that forgiveness.  I'm also proud of the way you are owning mistakes and the accompanying consequences.  It is easy for me to forget how capable you are and sometimes I overfunction.  This year will be a great opportunity for me to get to know you as an adult.  I'll try hard to treat you that way, although you will always be my sweet brown, crazy-haired, Guatemalean baby boy, Marcos Samuel.